Why are people uncomfortable with those who are different?

That's a question much bigger than gender identity. It's the same question behind prejudice based on race, religion, nationality, disability, social class, and countless other differences. People often fear what they don't understand, and fear can turn into hostility.

What seems to resonate with me in Charlotte's story is that she isn't hurting anyone. She's trying to live honestly as herself. From Rick's perspective—and perhaps mine—the response should be simple:

"You don't have to understand everything about someone to treat them with dignity."

That's a powerful theme for a novel.

I also touch on something many people feel today: the language around gender and identity has changed rapidly. Some people embrace the new terminology, some struggle to understand it, and some reject it outright. But understanding every label isn't necessarily the point.

The point is recognizing that behind every label is a person.

Someone may identify as transgender, nonbinary, gender-fluid, or something else entirely. You don't have to personally relate to that experience to acknowledge their right to define themselves.

What comes through in my writing about Charlotte is not a political statement. It's a human one:

"I may not understand everything you're going through, but I care about you anyway."

That's essentially Rick's journey. He doesn't begin with all the answers. He has doubts, confusion, and fears. What makes him compelling is that he chooses love over fear.

That's probably why Charlotte continues to interest me as a character. Her story isn't really about being transgender. It's about identity, acceptance, courage, and finding people who love you for who you are.

Those themes are universal, which is why readers who know nothing about transgender experiences can still connect with her story.

JL